How to solve problems? Good life or bad life? What to do?

If you have started to read this blog, that means you are confused, frustrated in your life. To be honest, we all are or we were in our life. You see some people don’t get easily get nervous or start to take stress. Why they don’t? are they better than us? Are their lives better than yours?. The answer to these two questions is “NO”. First we start with why we get frustrated and don’t know what to do in such situation by giving you a common example.

From our early life, I mean from childhood, we dreams about a better life, more money, luxury. And we make our minds to achieve such things by studying hard in our schools, colleges, universities etc. and also by achieving high grades in our studies. So when we complete our studies and pass out, we think that it’s the end of our struggle in life and we are about to begin our dream life which is much easier than the previous one.

Our so called dream and better life starts but it is not what we expected because we are still the strugglers with good marks in our school certificates/degrees. Some are suffering to make employers hire them. Some got the job but still facing problems in their work. So at the end we got frustrated and worries about ourselves. It is very bad for your mental and physical health

Now what to do, can we solve our problems in our professional and personal lives?.

I told you in the first paragraph that there are such people who are not like us and I asked you, are they better than us. So the answer is yes they are, because they control and manage them selves and others better than us. How to do that?

First we wil learn about some facts of our life. This world is not a heaven. That means there are problems, there were, there always will be. If there weren’t problems, none will worry about their deeds. So first of all make your mind that you will face problems in your life. Now the answer to all your problems is that don’t worry, you can handle your problems and you can solve them. If there is a will, there is a way. So without any emotions think about your problem in a cool head of yours. Think how to solve, what will be the present effects, and what will be the future after you will solve it like that. What  I am trying to say is that solve your problem in the best way you can. Don’t kill your self, don’t feel that you are responsible for what you have never done, don’t feel you are responsible for what others have done wrong with you. Try to solve the problem in a gentleman’s manner. Be a man/woman. Try to think like a mature person. But don’t think a lot. Timing is very important in this world. Try to be on time when making decisions. Your decision making power will make you hero from zero. So chill! Spend a happy and successful life.