Confidence to start



Everything you need in your life needs something worthy to be spent on it. It can be your hard work. It can be your money or something else. Confidence is one of the most important part of your life. Without confidence no one can achieve anything unless that person is too lucky. Confidence means that you have admitted in your imagination that you have no fear what so ever. 

People who doesn’t have confidence always feels that they are intelligent and that they are smarter than others. Well, this is quite wrong because the people with no confidence are fools and will take much time to achieve their goals as compared to the people with confidence. Confidence gives you the shine and charm one needs. Even if you lost or let down on anythings that doesn’t matter but you on your own was perfect at that moment. Confidence gives a person a boost to do big things. People should think about it and should think clearly. 

No time for love because miss perfect

I don’t have time for love. My love is no where these days. I am mature now. I should not think about it, what if I fall in love with someone. I don’t wanna love or I think may be I want to love someone but there is no one in my life who deserves my love. I can’t say that I am right. But I know one thing that my miss perfect will come to my life day and it will take some time to see that day.

Love it like it

Do love your loved one but please be sure to be yourself. Don’t destroy what you are for the one you love. If you will do so then your lover won’t have that reason to love you. Try to be yourself no matter what others want. Love is the perfect gift for your life. Stay what you are, don’t be crazy and don’t upset your other friends and family because of your love. Love it like a love don’t do something else. Stay intelligent and smart.


We all dream. I do dream and not sure sometimes what was the dream. Could be a good one next time, I will remember the next one. Could be bad one but still has to remember the upcoming, thats what I negotiate with myself. But cannot remember. Or don’t want to remember who knows. But one thing I know that I enjoy dreams. If it is good dream then it is like a very impressive fictional film and if it is bad, well I try my best to fix the things.

I do not dream that much what many other people dreams. My dreams came in sometimes in night. Well, if I am asleep at night. Some of my dream comes in my mind to give me a big boost. I can say this but I cannot explain because I cannot remember my dreams.

I don’t know the medical stuff behind the dreams. But one thing I know which is cool is that some people are successful only because of their dreams. If their dreams weren’t there then they might not tasted the success. Doesn’t matter what kind of dreams those are, whether day dreams or dreams saw when were asleep. Dreams are dreams thats what I can say now. I am writing this blog and its a midnight right now, may be I can dream something cool. Well, whatever. So keep dreaming and dream big.

Writer in love

Writing is an art. For me it comes when I am on auto pilot mode. With all the thoughts and logic coming into my head from no where. Don’t know boy, if it is a god gifted thing or may be nothing. I always do try to write good to gain more public. But I can’t write when I am not in a good mood. Depression takes away everything. I don’t depress a lot but sometimes our mood is bot that good. We keep on going without thinking. Imagine how old popular writers writes, they might ve in a very good mood but that is not what it is. I heard and read that many popular or most popular authors were very upset. I can’t say why but I know that they have only one gift in their life and which is of love. They loved someone but again I don’t know are they with their lovers or not. I can say one thing very clearly here that I am not with my lover. Again I don’t know why, may be there is no one for me now or whatever.

Lack of love in learning

Learning is an art. It should be noted that there should be passion to learn something. Learning is defined as an act of making yourself to know how to do a thing or  the cognitive process of acquiring skill or knowledge. You can’t be an artist without loving the art. From my point of view you cannot learn without passion, I mean to say that you can learn without passion but it will be not like that kind of knowing, which you have done with love. We can’t just go out there and study without our whole mind in it. Whole mind. Yeah, by whole mind I meant full concentration, focus, passion, tendency to know etc.. I think this all needs explanation.

What people think these days is that go out there learn your lesson, finish the job, come back home and sleep. Yes, we can do that. Like many students are there to get high marks in the subjects, thats the only thing they need, they only want good grades to get good jobs, nothing more. People doing jobs, go to work with one thing in mind that they will finish their current tasks and will return home without any interest in knowing what they have done or what they have learned or what they have achieved today. Is that it? Is that what we want to do in our lives? Ask your self?

Now think if you have done your work with passion, tendency to hardwork and to success or achievement. The results could have been different from which they are now. Think, just think. How successful people do things in their lives?

Do they have no interest in what they do?

Are they successful because of not dreaming?

Were they losers in their past lives?

Yes, they have failed many times. But the point is that they never let their selves down. We lose, yes we lose. But a winner is the one who even after losing many times tries hard. Yup, you can learn. But learn with passion, with your mind and worship.

If you don’t get good grades in your schools/colleges, even you love your studies, thats not a problem. I have to say this that you have a lack of love for your studies tho, you love your studies. What I am trying to say is that you need to love more like how you love a girl/boy. I hope you understand. Learning is not just about what you learn in your school. Its about everything you are in contact with. We are learners since the day we born and will be learners till we die. Learn everything you likes, loves, are interested in etc.. You should not make boundaries for yourself to study or research. Love hard to learn, whatever you likes.